Q&A: Breaking up a dog fight
QUESTION:
While at work, the 2 smaller dogs got into a fight. Usually it’s playful. But today it turned into full on war and I tried my hardest to help and break it up. Aussie vs Terrier. I am such a dog lover and HATE HATE HATE having to see or even get in the middle of something like that.
Mallory, I need your advice. I want to be strong, resourceful, less emotional, confident and quick to resolve any future situations I come across with ANY animal.
ANSWER:
The thing is that when you own a dog, especially multiple dogs, you have to keep in mind – they’re dogs. Dogs are living, breathing, sentient beings who get pissed off like the rest of us and they have bad days. Even dogs who have lived harmoniously together for years will have a spat now and then, so if these dogs live together, this is absolutely not uncommon. If they were strangers to each other, that makes even more sense. That being said, if you want to be strong, confident, and less emotional, you need to acknowledge two things:
A) Dogs are animals, animals fight. Mentally prepare yourself for the fact that this will always be a possibility when in the presence of multiple dogs. A lack of confidence comes from a lack of planning, or not knowing how to handle the situation. So…
B) These are the following tactics applied to breaking up dog fights as *safely as possible.*
1 – DO NOT GRAB THE COLLAR. That is an open invitation to be bitten.
2 – DO NOT GRAB THE COLLAR. Just driving it home. ![]()
3 – Bust out the garden hose. Old tricks are the best tricks.
4 – Petsmart carries a product called “DirecStop.” It’s a can of citronella spray that is a nasty scent deterrent for dogs. Popular for joggers. Supposedly works on bears, but I’ll pass on testing that claim. Spray it at their nose/mouth. I have used this product successfully 95% of the time, the other 5% was when it ran empty on me when I needed it. Keep 2 on hand.
5 – If all else fails, position yourself directly behind the more aggressive dog and pick it up by the back legs. The initial “what the hell?!” response to having their body picked up (usually) snaps them out of their fury to see what’s going on. If the dog is VERY energized in the fight, watch out for any redirected aggression as he’s turning around to investigate what is picking him up.
6 – If the dogs are not locked together, swing the dog you are holding to face away from the other dog, but keep a sharp eye out that the other dog does not retaliate. Make sure they cannot see each other for several seconds before attempting to guide the dogs away from each other.
If you’re by yourself, the best thing to do is find a way to separate them until they’ve calmed down, or until someone else is there that can help break up a second fight should it occur. Remind them of the list above. Often times, skirmishes happen over minor things between dogs who know each other, and once the situation is diffused, co-mingling is fine with initial supervision.
Another that will help with boosting confidence is learning how to read their body language. Often times dogs will give off cues to one another via subtle gestures in posture before engaging in a fight and by familiarizing yourself with these gestures, you can prevent a fight from taking place by intervening at the right time. I highly recommend anything by Dr. Patricia McConnell on the matter of reading dog language, especially her book “The Other End of the Leash.”
As for learning to remain calm in an excitable situation, look for opportunities to control your heart rate. Whenever you feel you heart rate pick up, make a mental effort to quiet and stabilize the rhythm. Watching scary movies is a good place to start practicing, then just be aware of external stimuli that might get your heart pounding. Take every opportunity you can to regulate your heart rhythm when given the chance. Controlled breathing is the start of it – long, slow deep breaths – and mentally setting your heart to pump at the same time that you’re counting backwards from 10 at a slow rate. Controlling your heart rate is key to making sure you stay cool, calm and collected should the fur ever fly. Your dogs will also pick up on and feed off of your energy, so bear in mind what kind of energy you’re giving them in such a heated moment. Even by doing nothing to break up the fight, your presence and energy are absolutely affecting the process, so check your own energy – are you chilled out, thus dousing the fire or are you panicking and fanning the flames?
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